Tuesday, September 30, 2008

laying the bricks

For my girls:

"You can't own a human being.  You can't lose what you don't own.  Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you? And neither does he.  You're turning your whole life to him.  Your whole life, girl.  And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean anymore to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself." -Toni Morrison

A lesson we all must learn.
xo

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